What if there was a way you could look and feel gorgeous most of the time – how much more attractive would you feel?
If you’ve ever wondered what the single most important asset is in being gorgeous, that when mastered, will single-handedly change the way you feel about yourself, I will tell you, without a shadow of a doubt – it’s the ability to project a confident attitude.
That’s because the single most attractive trait any woman can possess is … unshakable confidence in herself.
Now listen closely…
You could spend a fortune having your hair done, putting on a stunning outfit, buying the latest make-up and cosmetics – but all the external finery in the world isn’t going to do you much good if you can’t add that certain spark … the spark that IS the essence of what makes a woman gorgeous.
To feel gorgeous you must bring together many aspects of yourself in total harmony.
By this I mean you must feel good about who you are in a happy self assured way but not overly confident or arrogant. Feeling good about yourself and being comfortable in your own skin is actually the key to being gorgeous.
So how do you accomplish this?
You must be absolutely happy with your body as it is and accept all your flaws as part of your natural beauty and what contributes to making you unique.
To master this you must maximize your assets and play down your faults.
Maximize your assets by eating a healthy diet; learn which foods promote a healthy and radiant skin. Discover how to give your body everything it needs so that it will give you energy and vitality.
Look after your skin from the outside too. Practice good skin care techniques to bring out your natural beauty and give your skin a younger fresher look.
It you’re not happy with your body shape then change it! With a little effort and commitment you can have the body of your dreams. You can be proud of the way you look and feel good about your self.
Don’t moan that you need to lose ten pounds and then wallow in self pity and console yourself with comfort foods. That will accomplish nothing but more misery. Make a decision and then stick to it, show the world you care about how you look and you are willing to do what it takes to get the body you’ve always wanted.
To help you feel gorgeous pamper yourself often. Relax in a luxuriously scented bath. Always moisturize after soaking in a bath using a good moisturizer to avoid overly drying your skin out. Be careful to pay special attention to dry areas such as elbows, knees and feet.
Take your time and massage the moisturizer right into your skin. Massaging not only helps your circulation it also helps to smooth out bumps and wrinkles and will enhance your natural beauty.
Olive oil, an old-fashioned beauty secret much favored by Sophia Loren, will give your skin a luxurious look and feel by making it soft and supple to touch. As the surface of your skin improves you will begin to feel more gorgeous.
Treat yourself like your own best friend. Learn to love yourself and your body and soon others will do the same.
Accept yourself for who you are and what you are capable of. People can do the most incredible things when they are motivated enough to try. You can achieve anything if you set your mind to it. Let other people see that you are proud and they will admire you for it.
Set yourself high standards and you will suddenly become someone who is worth getting to know better. They will pick up on the fact that you respect yourself and that you expect others to do the same.
When you lack confidence in yourself you tend to think inwardly all the time. You worry about how others see you and what they think of you. To stop yourself doing this project your thoughts onto other people instead. Take an active interest in who they are and what they do; discover all you can about them. Ask questions and really listen to what they say. They will be flattered by your interest and show an interest in you in return.
To feel gorgeous everything about you has to be in harmony. This doesn’t mean you have to look like a super model, far from it. It means that you are the best you can be, you are totally happy with how you look and you are proud of who you are.
When you become happy in your own skin and behave in a confident self assured way you will be extremely attractive and sexy, regardless of your body shape.
How you honestly feel about yourself deep down inside is what really matters. When you feel gorgeous it will show in your eyes, your natural beauty will shine, and you will be gorgeous.